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Beware Of The Professional Blamers
Having accountability & taking responsibility for issues in our lives is some of the most powerful things we can do for ourselves and the people in our lives. It isn’t an easy lesson to learn at first, because of the pride we all have as human beings. It’s an uneasy feeling admitting that we’re wrong. We may feel weak or defeated if we admit that we’re in the wrong for our bad situations.
Sometimes, it really isn’t our fault, and we get a bad hand dealt on us. That’s understandable.
It took me a little while to grasp the importance of being accountable for situations that go south in my life. But once I realized how much power is in accepting responsibility if I made a mistake, it became easy for me to do it all the time when those times came.
Sadly, not everyone has this philosophy. We’ll run into people who are masters at dodging responsibility in any mess that they created. These people are professional blamers. They could be in our families, at the workplace, or someone that we’re friends/in a relationship with.
Professional blamers can ruin your reputation with their lives they tell on you behind your back. You could have great character. These people don’t care, they only care about making themselves look good in a positive light, and if you are a danger in shattering that light, they won’t hesitate in…
