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It’s Okay Not To Know The Answer To Every Problem/Question
Acting like we do isn’t necessary
Sometimes, it can be difficult to admit when we don’t have the solution/answer to a problem/question, especially if you’re the kind of person who wants people to see you as a smart and reliable individual.
Nowadays, it’s easier for me to give answers like ‘’I don’t know’’ or ‘’Such and such may know the answer’’ than it was in my 20s or teens. I had this problem at times when I used to work at SeaWorld over 10 years old.
One of my favorite parts of working there was interacting with the guests who wanted to have a good time with their friends, family, or lovers. I felt like a hero when guests would come up to me and ask where a certain location was.
When I knew the answer, I felt I had accomplished something. But when I didn’t know the answer, sometimes, I would make up an answer because the guests were so happy, that I didn’t want to ruin their joy, so I would give my best guess so they didn’t lose their emphasis.
Thinking about it now, I’m sure I gave the wrong answers most of the time I guessed to the guests. Looking back, I realize I did that because I wanted people to see me as someone they could count on. Plus, having a strong need/want to be accepted on top of it.
